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Washing Your Wife's Hair

By Steven D. Mikel • January 1, 2023

Come on, admit it, you always liked going to the salon, maybe as a kid or secretly as an adult… To lean back and have your head washed. Ahh, how relaxing!

Well, consider the blessing of suggesting that you wash your wife’s hair. Just clean out the kitchen sink, maybe use some “Bar Keepers Friend” then throw some old lemons down the garbage disposal to get rid of any unpleasant smells. Grab her favorite shampoo and conditioner and a few towels…

This simple act of service can bring you closer as a couple and provide a relaxing experience for your wife. Not only does it demonstrate your love and appreciation for her, but it also offers a chance to connect on a deeper level.

How to Make It Special

  1. Prepare the space - Clean the sink thoroughly and ensure the water temperature is comfortable
  2. Gather supplies - Her favorite shampoo, conditioner, and soft towels
  3. Take your time - Don’t rush; this is about connection, not efficiency
  4. Be gentle - Massage her scalp gently and let her relax
  5. Follow up - Help dry her hair and maybe brush it out gently

This unexpected gesture speaks volumes about how much you value and cherish her.