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Flowers for No Reason

By Steven D. Mikel • January 4, 2023

How many of us “martians” see a gift of flowers for our wives as primarily a part of a sincere apology or as something for special occasions like Valentine’s Day, Mother’s Day, Anniversaries or her birthdays?

Here’s a thought: Flowers for no reason other than “I was thinking of you.”

Most grocery stores have small bouquets for reasonable cost, especially if you have something at home to use a vase. Swing by and pick up some flowers and bring them home just to say “she is on your mind.”

Why This Works

  • It’s unexpected - which makes it more meaningful
  • It shows you think of her even when you “don’t have to”
  • It breaks the routine and adds joy to an ordinary day
  • It communicates that she’s worth the effort

The cost doesn’t matter. The thought does. A $10 bouquet from the grocery store, brought home on a random Tuesday, speaks louder than an expensive arrangement on Valentine’s Day when everyone expects flowers.

Try it this week. No reason needed.